The It Mom®

Busy mom life of today's modern It-Moms. Comfy chic style, makeovers, home decor and motherhood.

  • Home
  • About
    • Press + Media Kit
    • Shop
  • Mom Life
    • Faith
    • Marriage
    • Kids
    • Health & Wellness
      • Fitness
    • Recipes
      • Appetizers
      • Dessert Recipes
      • Drink Recipes
      • Healthy Recipes
      • Main Dishes
    • Working Mom
      • Work Life Balance
      • Mompreneur
      • Projects
      • Office Life
    • Personal Finance
    • Tech Gadgets
      • Product Reviews
    • Entertainment
  • Makeovers
    • Beauty
      • Self Care
      • Makeup
      • Hair & Skincare
    • Style
      • Busy Mom Style
      • Office Style
      • Casual Style
      • Night Out
      • Luxury
      • NYFW
    • Mommy Makeover
    • Total Mom Makeover
      • Season One
      • Season Two
  • Home Decor
  • Travel
    • USA
      • Las Vegas
      • Southern California
    • International

Health & Wellness · November 18, 2013

Together We Can Make A Difference #PayItForward #HelpConnieJo

The holidays are my favorite time of the year – overall, from the months of October through New Year are always filled with excitement and opportunities to do good deeds. With current catastrophes such as Typhoon Haiyan in the Philippines, and families needing a helping hand this holiday season – what better time to give than right now? We recently came across a special woman who desperately needs your help, and even just donating $1 would surely build up the funds needed to help her survive. Let’s all come together and #PayItForward and #HelpConnieJo

Here’s her story, as told by a close friend:

Connie is a disabled senior suffering from Lupus, related severe arthritis, circulatory issues, and is also diagnosed 70% deaf. Additionally, she suffers from permanent

damage as a result of injuries that occurred during her former abusive marriage. She lives independently with her two ‘therapy dogs’, Dakota and Cochise, whom she loves dearly and considers her family. Her dogs provide her with emotional companionship, security, and are her ‘ears’, hearing such things as the doorbell, since she is unable to hear it herself. Prior to becoming disabled a few years ago, Connie was known to be a dedicated hard worker her entire life. She is a very compassionate, kind, caring and giving person. Throughout life she has often sacrificed her own needs for sake of helping family, many friends, and even strangers in need. She was the sole caregiver for her father when he was terminally ill, and cared for her younger brother when he was ill with kidney disease. Prior to his death in 2008, Connie offered to donate one of her kidney’s to help her brother, but doctors determined he was not medically eligible for a transplant. She is also an animal lover, and has adopted countless neglected homeless dogs over the years, including 10 year old Dakota and 2 year old Cochise.

Help Connie Jo 2

In early 2009, a traumatic life transition began for Connie. Psychologically broken, battered, and sick, Connie divorced her spouse after suffering a lengthy history of physical, psychological and financial abuse. The abuses by her former spouse

continued after her divorce. She was advised by trauma doctors and legal professionals, to relocate to protect her physical and emotional well being. In late 2010, Connie courageously left behind the place she had known as home for almost 40 years. Along with her two beloved dogs, Connie relocated to Kansas City and began rebuilding a new life free of abuse, torment, and fear. Her former husband destroyed all financial security, so Connie sold a majority of her personal belongings and property to raise enough money so that she could afford to buy an inexpensive, modest, 2 bedroom home in Kansas City that is handicap and wheelchair accessible in a safe senior community.

Despite disabling and painful physical challenges, for the past 3 years Connie has been slowly cleaning up the once run down house. She has proudly accomplished transforming a house in to a safe, peaceful, and comfortable ‘home sweet home’ for herself, Dakota, and Cochise.

Connie’s only personal source of income is her retirement/disability, which is a fixed

income of less than $800.00 monthly. She is unable to supplement her income due to multiple disabilities and healthcare restrictions. Her former husband was court ordered to pay $600.00 monthly into a trust fund for Connie but he has not done so in violation of court orders. Her property taxes and insurance were to be paid from this special needs trust fund.

Despite her financial limitations, Connie has frugally managed to pay her home’s insurance premiums and for necessary basic home maintenance repairs, but she has not been able to pay her property taxes the past 3 years. She and her two beloved dogs, Dakota and Cochise, face the uncertainty of being homeless as of January 1st, 2014 if the past due property taxes on her home are not paid in full. The state of Missouri appears to have no resources or feasible programs available to help.

Jackson County, Missouri has added almost $2,000.00 in penalties and interest on her past due taxes. The county has stated they will continue to charge interest on the unpaid taxes. Due to her fixed income and disabilities, she is unable to obtain a loan to pay her property taxes. She has no family financially able to help her, and all other efforts made to pay the past due taxes have been unsuccessful.

Hoping for a Christmas miracle, we’re now turning to her friends and fellow human beings asking for your help to prevent Connie, Dakota, and Cochise from losing their home. If we can raise $10,000.00, we can pay the past due property taxes, penalty, interest, and pay an additional 2 years home taxes in advance. This plan will allow Connie to live securely in her handicap accessible home another 5 years, at which time her monthly fixed income should increase. At 62 she’ll be eligible for additional income through her Social Security, and should then be able to pay her home’s property taxes herself.

The money raised will be securely deposited in to Connie’s trust fund, and

the trust will directly pay her property taxes to Jackson County, Missouri. Any additional money raised over our goal of $10,000.00, will also be deposited in to Connie’s trust fund to help pay future property taxes, insurances, necessary home repairs, such as if her hot water heater would need replaced, or to provide necessary veterinary care for her beloved dogs.

Connie is a very proud humble person, and not the type of person who would ask others for help. Rather, she is the one always helping others, but this time she desperately needs our help, to save her safe and secure handicap accessible home from property tax foreclosure.

You guys… it will NOT be that hard to save Connie’s life as she knows it if we work together. I have over 150,000 fans on Facebook alone, and if each one donated LESS THAN A DOLLAR, we can give this woman everything she deserves, and more. And what a better way to pay it forward this holiday season than giving to someone who would give to any of you in a heartbeat!

There are a few ways you can help:

1. Share this post EVERYWHERE. Facebook, Twitter, wherever you can think of. If you are a blogger I give you full permission to copy parts of this post to put on your own blog. Getting the word out will help more than anything.

2. You can donate via Paypal:





(Note: If this button isn’t working, you can send funds via Paypal to mrsheatherreese@gmail.com) You don’t have to have a Paypal account to do this. You can do this with a debit or credit card, just like any other online purchase.

3. If you’d prefer to send cash, checks, or money orders via snail mail rather than online, you can send them to:

Help for Connie
2816 NW Kingsridge Dr.
Blue Springs, MO 64015

Wal-Mart gift cards are also helpful, as her income is limited and this will help her to be able to buy the essentials so that she can save more money to put aside to save her house.

4. There is a growing list of businesses and people that are coming up with ways to help her out. If you want to check them out, CLICK HERE.

Be sure to leave us a comment to let us know if you donated! We’d love to see the movement and buzz of our readers paying it forward! I encourage each of you to pay it forward and help one another in any way you can. With situations like Connie’s and other current catastrophes such as Typhoon Haiyan, it’s time we all team up together and change the world, one soul at a time. Hug your family extra tight tonight because this crazy world we live in really is…well, crazy! But if we bond together with love, hope, and faith – all things are possible!

Posted By: Daisy Teh · In: Health & Wellness

Italian Restaurant Style Spaghetti Dinner for a Family of Four (Prep and Cook in 30-Minutes or Less)
Preparing For My Plastic Surgery Operation with Dr. Frank Stile in Las Vegas

About Daisy Teh

Daisy Teh has been featured in All You Magazine, published by Time Inc. and been in several local Las Vegas television networks. As a kid, I've always dreamed of impacting the lives of millions! My struggles have become my successes.

You’ll Also Love

24 Affordable and Creative Family Fun Ideas To Do Now On a Budget
Menguin – The Easiest Way to Rent Your Tux
LAS VEGAS Go Positive Contest In-Store Event with Daisy Teh and Cricket Wireless

Comments

  1. Sam Woodling says

    November 18, 2013 at 2:14 AM

    It wasn’t much but I gave what I could. I hope I helped!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Subscribe & Follow

Like us on Facebook!

In The Media

Our Brand PartnersOur Brand Partners

Partnerships

Our Brand PartnersOur Brand Partners Everywhere
@georgeteh3 put his heart and soul into this proje @georgeteh3 put his heart and soul into this project piece for @arteh_creations ❤️ He’s learning new things throughout the furniture design and building process. And figuring it out along the way (all without formal training, education or experience in the trade - learned it from YouTube lol).

He created functional art from this very, very, very delicate 1950’s gossip chair 🪑 that we got for free through FBMP. It was in pretty bad shape, and I was unsure of how he would do it or what he planned to do. But I’ve always loved how creative his visions and ideas are with pieces he finds, and I knew he’d come up with something amazing!

I’m so proud of how far my husband has come in all facets of his life. And it’s great to see his eyes lighting up again when he talks about building and creating furniture and art!

Happy husband, happy home! 🏡 #vintagedecor #furnitureflipper #gossipchair #beforeandafter #furnituremakeover #antiquefurniture #modernrustic #artdecodesign
Hiiiiiii! I’ve been keeping a secret under embargo Hiiiiiii! I’ve been keeping a secret under embargo until the full announcement was released, and I’m thrilled to finally share! ✨

After much prayer, reflection, soul-searching, and a sprinkle of courage, I’ve taken a leap and joined the other side as a freelance Creative Consultant for The Allen Lewis Agency (@trytala)🚀

For over 12 years I’ve been captivated by the power of creativity, design, influence, and the art of storytelling. It’s been an incredible journey filled with learning, growth, and an unquenchable passion for all things content creation.💡And now I get to dive into a whole new world (to me, at least) of the agency side working behind the scenes in PR/Marketing/Communications and alongside my Influencer and Content Creator friends! 🌟

This new chapter represents not just a professional milestone, but a personal commitment to pursue what sets my heart on fire. I’m looking forward to working with incredible individuals like Jocelyn Coley and the roster of amazing, major brands. I’m excited to learn from each experience, but also grateful for some familiarity, as I’ve actually worked with a handful of the team throughout the years as an Influencer.

Thank you for being a part of this journey with me! Your support means the world to me, and I can’t wait to see where this new path leads. Also, to all my influencer frands — I hope you’re all excited and ready too, because I’ll be reaching out to you for future potential opportunities! Love you all! 🙏💫 #humblebeginnings #newbeginningsahead #newaddition #momswhohustle
Last weekend, I got to experience driving an elect Last weekend, I got to experience driving an electric vehicle for the very first time thanks to @nissanusa! Here’s the BIG REVEAL of the 2023 Nissan ARIYA e-4ORCE AWD EV, available in April 2023!

We met with Ted Kreder, Senior Manager, EV Marketing and Sales Nissan U.S. for a first look at the new ARIYA e-4ORCE AWD EV.

Some call outs I wanted to highlight…

8 year 100k mile battery warranty!!! 😮

Worry-free ownership w/ EV Carefree+
Standard on every Nissan EV for no additional cost. Assists customer EV charging, health, maintenance and roadside assistance.

ARIYA seeks to set a new standard for Nissan vehicle design based on timeless Japanese futurism.

Movable Power Console lets the driver perfectly position more than just their seat and mirrors.

Haptic Switches enable clean, uninterrupted surfaces with the convenience of pushing a button.

Intelligent Rearview Mirror offers a clear view of what’s behind you.

Kumiko patterns, inspired by the skilled craftsmanship of Japanese woodwork, highlight attention to detail.

ProPILOT Assist 2.0 - Allows hands-off, eyes-on driving on HD mapped freeways to help reduce driver fatigue in traffic or on long trips.

ProPILOT Park - Helps you perform parallel and back-in parking maneuvers.

Charging Performance Quick Charge: New battery thermal control with battery conditioner.

10 to 80 percent charge in 35 (63kW)/40 (87kW) minutes at 130kW!

#hosted #NissanARIYA #NissanDiversity #electricvehicle #ev #cuv #suvlife #japanesedesign #electrified #futuristic #sleekdesign #sonoma #drivesafe #sonomacounty #livingmydreams
Arrived safely to Sonoma for some fun weekend shen Arrived safely to Sonoma for some fun weekend shenanigans with @Nissanusa and experiencing the drive event for the all-new 2023 Nissan ARIYA e-4ORCE AWD all-electric crossover vehicle!

This beauty arrives in April, but they’re taking reservations. And we got a first look and drive!

We stayed at the beautiful 5-star @montagehealdsburg, and wanted to give you a quick hotel property tour. 

Took a golf cart to my suite, and y’all, my suite has a firepit, an indoor shower AND an outdoor shower!

Later we had dinner with the Nissan team along with all my new (and old) content creator friends. And even got a recording of one of them singing for us (will post later on). Follow along my Stories. #NissanARIYA #NissanDiversity #ev #electricvehicle #nissan  #mediatrip #hosted #fivestar #fivestarhotel #montage #sonoma #sonomacounty #napavalley #winecountry #wineanddine
Heading to Sonoma this weekend with @nissanusa, an Heading to Sonoma this weekend with @nissanusa, and couldn’t help but share a throwback of my time in Miami when I got to see the new 2023 Ariya electric crossover utility vehicle.

We met with Akilah Pearson, Nissan Product Specialist, to get a first look at the new Ariya electric CUV.

Some call outs I wanted to highlight…

8 year 100k mile warranty!!! 😮

Roadside Assistance for the friends who forget to charge up (I’m talking about you, Linda! Lol!)

App available for the Ariya

Pro Pilot Assist: Camera behind steering wheel dashboard to monitor driver’s eyes. If you are tired or fall asleep, then the Ariya will pull over for you so that you do not get into a car accident! This is amazing! 

Also offers the ability to parallel park for you —— something I absolutely need. 🤣

Has rearview mirror camera

300 long range miles before charging up again.

Added legroom inside, since there’s no transmission.

We’ll share another video of the interior Ariya tour soon, but wow, blown away by the features!  #NissanAriya #Ariya #hosted #Nissan #electriccar #ev
Happy 1-Year Work Anniversary, @Collectors / @PSAc Happy 1-Year Work Anniversary, @Collectors / @PSAcard ! 🎉 Celebrated it on March 8th (but it was International Women’s Day). Also coming up on 10 years in Talent Acquisition/HR field.

Started in this space as a Contract Recruiting Coordinator (temp) scheduling interviews and setting up job fair booths (boy that was an adventure, let me tell ‘ya 🤣). And I very quickly worked my way up to becoming a Corporate Recruiter. I absolutely love what I do, and the impact we make to help better people’s lives through finding their dream careers. ❤️

Now I work for a company who helps people pursue their passions for collecting. My own family loves collecting high-value collectibles too.

I began collecting postage stamps at the age of 8. I remember getting grounded, because I racked up a $500 phone bill making calls to a New York stamp dealer talking all things stamps. And look at me now, Mom! 😂 I was an 80’s and 90’s kid…moved into @lisafrank stickers, @pokemon cards, Cabbage Patch Kids, video games and Beanie Babies. 😜 I’ve been asking my parents where those collectibles are, but they are still missing. 🙈

Now my children, husband and MIL have a wooden chest full of sports cards, Funko Pops, and memorabilia.

As you can see, finding an industry I love, doing the type of work that I do, is a dream and fulfills me. And the company perks are a huge plus. They’re an AMAZING company! 🙌

The collectible hoodie I’m wearing was custom designed by artist, Adam Lister, for Collectors employees! 😍 #findyourpurpose #findyourpath #findyourpassion #HR #recruiter  #recruiterlife #corporateidentity #corporatemom #dreamjob #humanresources #talentacquisition #psacard #collectors #dowhatyoulovetodo #workanniversary
Working from home does have it’s perks! Beautiful Working from home does have it’s perks! Beautiful views, peace and quiet, can work in my bathrobe (and take it off to reveal my work appropriate attire during Zoom meetings 🤣). I was super cold here, since Cali’s amazing yet bipolar weather allows for zero usage of heat and air conditioning, but still needing things handy for warmth.

.
.
.
.
.
#workfromhomemom #workfromhomelife #wfhsetup #wfhlife #midcenturymodernfurniture #midcenturymodern #mcmfurniture #ikeahome #castlery #interiordesigninspo #homedecorator #theitmom #mompreneurlife #corporatemom #hybridwork #hybridworking #lovemynewhome #cerritos #socalfilipinos #socallife #socalliving #lacounty #socalrealestate
Come with me and you’ll see the new 2023 @genesis Come with me and you’ll see the new 2023  @genesis_usa electrified GV70! Sleek, stylish…electrifying. 😍 It’s the fastest charging electrified mid-sized SUV with a powerful boost feature that can take you from 0-100km/h in 4.2 seconds #KeepBeginning #GenesisUSA #ElectrifiedGV70

#redcarpetdress #redcarpetready #dtlanightlife #dtla #unveiling #electriccars #ev #electricvehicle #comewithme #comecheckthis #peek #prettycar #sleek

Copyright © 2026 The It Mom® · Theme by 17th Avenue